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Relatives and clubmates in the pairings: can they be kept apart

Alexey Mudry · updated October 26, 2026
A father and son have signed up for the same tournament. Two players from one club lead before the last round. Parents ask, "just don't pair them against each other". Can your own players be kept apart in the pairings? In the Swiss system under FIDE rules - no. In a round robin - the game can be moved earlier, but not cancelled. Below - what the rules say, why your own players are best paired early and what is left for an amateur tournament organiser.

The Swiss system: FIDE rules know nothing of family

The basic rules of the FIDE Swiss system (C.04.1, 2026 edition) forbid only one thing in a pairing: two players do not meet twice. Neither family, nor club, nor federation is considered. Pairings are made by points, colours and starting numbers.

And changing correct pairings to favour anyone is forbidden (C.04.2, point 1.5). So if the pairing in a rated Swiss tournament brings a brother and sister together - they play. It is not a mistake but an honest pairing.

Relatives and clubmates most often meet in the last rounds, when both are at the top of the table. That is exactly where their game draws the closest questions: did they agree a result? The best defence is to play seriously and finish the game.

Round robin: restricted drawing of lots

For round robins FIDE has the "Restricted Drawing of Lots" procedure (section C.06). It is used when the regulations require that players from one federation should not meet in the last three rounds, if possible.

How it works: in a round robin a player's number decides in advance in which round they play each opponent. The Varma tables split the numbers into groups so that numbers from one group do not meet in the last three rounds. A delegation draws its numbers from one envelope - and its players will play each other early in the tournament. The tables are made for tournaments of 10 to 20 players, with variants up to 24.

The regulations can apply the same technique to clubs and families: the point is the same, your own players meet earlier. How a round robin itself works - a round-robin chess tournament.

Why your own players meet early, not late

The point of the restriction is not that your own players never meet. That is impossible in a round robin and forbidden in a Swiss. The point is that their game should not decide places in the last rounds. When a draw or a loss to one of your own could hand a prize to a friend, the result raises questions - even if the game was played honestly.

In the first round such a game decides nothing, and there is no suspicion. So every way of "keeping your own apart" really means "pairing your own early".

What an organiser can do: a table by format

FormatCan they be kept apartHow
Swiss system, FIDE-ratednopairing knows nothing of family or clubs; changing correct pairings is forbidden
Round robinthe meeting can be brought forwardrestricted drawing of lots: players from one group do not meet in the last three rounds, if possible
Team tournamentclubmates do not meetteammates play together against another team
Groups within a tournamentthey can be put in different groupsif relatives differ in age or level, they end up in different groups
Unrated amateur tournamentper the regulationsthe rule is announced in advance, and the pairing software must support it

For a junior tournament where a brother and sister differ in age, the most natural way is age groups. For clubs and companies - the team format: clubmates play together against another team.

A tournament player at Coffee Bean thinking over a move, head resting on his handTwo people playing a game at a small table in Coffee Bean, coffee cups beside the boardA young player over a board with wooden pieces, a cup of coffee next to it
A Vibe Chess tournament in Moscow City: the pairing makes the pairs, not acquaintances.

If relatives do meet

  • • the game is played by the normal rules, the arbiter does not interfere with the pairing itself;
  • • a draw by agreement is possible, but in the last round the arbiter may look closely at a game of a few moves;
  • • if the regulations forbid short draws, the rule applies to them too - more in offering a draw;
  • • children should be told in advance that a game against a brother or sister is a game like any other.

Relatives and clubmates in the Vibe Chess app

In the Vibe Chess app pairing uses only points, colours and the history of games - as the FIDE rules require. Forbidden pairs cannot be set. What you can do:

  • • split the tournament into groups - by age or level, each group with its own pairings and table;
  • • run a team tournament - clubmates play in one team;
  • • a round robin - numbers are given by rating, so there is no Varma-table drawing of lots in the app.
Choosing a group for a guest: Group A or Group B
A group for every player - with one button.
Round one of a team Swiss: team matches and games by board
A team tournament: your own players are in one team.
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Frequently asked questions about relatives in the pairings

Can relatives be kept from being paired in a Swiss tournament?

Not in a tournament under FIDE rules. Pairing does not take family into account, and changing correct pairings in anyone's favour is forbidden. The only restriction is a repeat game.

What is a restricted drawing of lots?

A FIDE procedure for round robins: numbers are drawn using the Varma tables so that players from one federation, if possible, do not meet in the last three rounds.

Why should clubmates play early in the tournament?

So that their game does not decide places at the end. A game in the first round decides nothing and raises no suspicion.

Can an amateur tournament forbid pairing relatives?

An unrated tournament may set its own rule if it is announced in advance. But the pairing software must be able to apply it, and age groups or a team format are fairer and simpler.

Can forbidden pairs be set in the Vibe Chess app?

No. Pairings are calculated by points, colours and the history of games. Players can be kept apart with groups within the tournament or the team format.

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  1. 1Create the event and share the link - sign-up opens right away
  2. 2Press start and the app announces the first pairing
  3. 3Enter results, the table with points and Buchholz updates itself
  4. 4At the end - final standings and a TRF report in the FIDE data exchange format
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Alexey Mudry
Alexey Mudry · hosted 37 events for Vibe Chess · 157 reviews · rating 5.0

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